This problem supports the development of the idea of generic proof with the children. This is a tricky concept to grasp but it draws attention to mathematical structures that are not often addressed at primary school level. It is possible that only very few children in the class may grasp the idea but this is still a worthwhile activity which provides opportunities for children to explore odd and even numbers and the relationship between them. Proof is a fundamental idea in mathematics and in encouraging them to do this problem you will be helping them to behave like mathematicians.
By addressing the case of adding two odd numbers, a generic proof that adding two odd numbers always gives an even answer is developed based on the structure of odd and even numbers. The article entitled Take One Example will help you understand how this problem supports the development of the idea of generic proof with the children. Reading it will help you to see what is involved.
Ask the children to choose two odd numbers and add them together. It is probably easiest if they choose ones that are easy to model and numbers that they are secure with.
Suggest that they make a model of their numbers using apparatus that is widely available in the classroom. Resist pointing them in specific directions unless they become stuck, but if they are then resources such as Multilink cubes, Numicon or squared paper will be helpful. After some time exploring they may need some prompting to move them towards looking at the pairing of their dots or cubes. These pictures may help.
The idea is that they take a particular example and then see if they can see the general structure within that one example.
How would you like to show these numbers?
What do you notice about the answer?
Can you see anything in your example that would work in exactly the same way if you used two different odd numbers?
Can you say what will happen every time you add any two odd numbers?
Can you convince your friend that this is true?
See what happens if you add two even numbers such as $4$ and $12$.
Can you 'see' in this example what will happen every time you add two even numbers?
You may find it helpful to work in a similar way to the way you worked for odd numbers.
See what happens if you add an odd and an even or an even and an odd such as $6$ and $9$.
Can you 'see' in this example what will happen every time you add an odd and an even or an even and an odd number?
You may find it helpful to work in a similar way to the way you worked before.
You could go on to look at Take Three Numbers.
It may be helpful to encourage children to use paper cut outs of the numbers such as these. In these the oddness of the odd numbers is very clear. Laminated sets of these cards could be a very useful addition to your classroom resources. Numicon would be an alternative resource to use.